
DWI & CRIMINAL
IF YOU ARE ARRESTED: YOUR FIRST DAY, STEP BY STEP
If you are arrested, stay calm, give your name, say clearly that you want a lawyer and then stop talking. Those four moves protect you more than any explanation you could offer in the moment, however innocent it sounds.
Step by step
Stay calm and follow physical directions
Arguing or pulling away can add charges and complicate the defense. Comply with instructions and save your objections for court.
Ask for a lawyer in plain words
Say "I want to speak with a lawyer, and I will not answer questions without one." Then stop. Explaining further tends to undo the request.
Use your phone call carefully
Calls from detention are usually recorded. Call a lawyer or a family member who can reach one, and keep the call to logistics.
Keep the details to yourself
Other people in holding are not your friends in a legal sense. Anything said there can reach a prosecutor.
Write it all down once released
Officer names, the time of the stop, whether you were read your rights and who saw what all fade quickly and can matter a great deal.
The hours right after an arrest are when careful silence does the most good.
| Do | Do not |
|---|---|
| Give your name and ask for a lawyer | Explain, apologize or guess |
| Keep calls short and practical | Discuss facts on a recorded line |
| Note names and times after release | Post about the arrest online |
Common questions
- Do I have to answer questions if I did nothing wrong?
- No. Innocent people are often hurt by trying to explain. Let your lawyer speak for you.
- When will I see a judge?
- Usually within a day or so for a first appearance, where conditions of release are set.
“Silence is not an admission. It is the most reliable way to keep your options open.”
General information for North Carolina readers, not advice for your situation.



