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WILLS & ESTATES

A PLAIN GUIDE TO YOUR FIRST ESTATE PLAN

Your first estate plan needs four documents: a will, a durable power of attorney, a health care power of attorney and a guardian nomination if you have young children. Together they decide who acts for you and who raises your kids.

Step by step

  1. List what you own and how it is titled

    Accounts with beneficiaries and jointly owned homes pass outside the will. Knowing which is which keeps the plan from contradicting itself.

  2. Choose the people before the paperwork

    Pick an executor, a financial agent, a health care agent and a guardian, plus a backup for each. Ask them first.

  3. Sign with the right formalities

    North Carolina has specific witness and notary requirements. A self-made will that misses them can fail when it matters most.

  4. Store it where it can be found

    Tell your executor where the originals are. A perfect will in a locked drawer nobody can open does little good.

An estate plan is less about money than about sparing the people you love from guessing.
What each document covers
DocumentWhen it worksWhat it decides
WillAfter deathWho inherits and who administers
Durable power of attorneyDuring incapacityWho handles money and property
Health care power of attorneyDuring incapacityWho makes medical decisions

Common questions

Is a trust better than a will?
Sometimes. Trusts help with privacy, blended families and property in several states, but many first plans do not need one.
How often should I update it?
Look at it every three to five years and after any major life change.

“A simple plan signed this year beats a perfect plan you keep meaning to start.”

General information for North Carolina readers, not advice for your situation.

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Questions clients ask

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Graham Thornbury has practiced law in Charlotte for sixteen years across business, property, estate and criminal matters. He writes these guides to answer the questions clients ask most often in a first meeting, in plain language and with North Carolina law in mind. Guides are general information, not advice for a specific situation, and reading one forms no attorney-client bond.

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